For many families in Ukraine, blackouts are more than a technical inconvenience — they trigger fear, anxiety, and memories of shelling or displacement. For children who have lived through occupation or constant air raids, darkness can easily become a psychological trigger.

At Save Ukraine, our psychologists work daily with children recovering from traumatic experiences. One of our priorities is providing families with simple, evidence-based tools that help reduce stress and restore a sense of safety — even when the lights go out.

Here are three techniques our specialists use in therapy sessions and teach to parents:

1️⃣ “Passing the Light” ritual

A flashlight becomes a symbol of safety and connection. Children and adults pass it to one another while sharing warm wishes or words of gratitude. This practice lowers anxiety, grounds the child in the present moment, and builds emotional connection — a core component of trauma recovery.

2️⃣ Shadow storytelling

Using hands, toys, or cardboard cutouts, families create characters on the wall and invent short stories together. This method activates imagination, supports emotional expression, and helps children articulate feelings they cannot yet verbalize — a common challenge after traumatic stress.

3️⃣ The “Treasure Box”

A simple box filled with objects of different textures and shapes helps transform fear into curiosity. When children explore the items with closed eyes, their attention shifts away from anxiety (“It’s dark — I’m scared”) to a sensory task (“What is this object?”). This redirection reduces hyperarousal and builds tolerance to uncertainty.

These techniques may seem simple — but in the hands of trained professionals, they become powerful tools for emotional stabilization. They help ensure that a child does not associate blackout-related darkness with danger, but instead with connection, play, and safety.

At Save Ukraine, we support thousands of children who continue to face the psychological consequences of war. And we remain committed to sharing practical tools that strengthen families and build resilience in the most challenging circumstances.

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This project is implemented with the support of KSE Foundation — the charitable arm of the Kyiv School of Economics.