Teaching Trust Again: the Story of Danylo
Danylo (name changed) became a complete orphan even before the war. His aunt was the only family he had left. When the full-scale invasion began, they had to leave their hometown, which fell under occupation within the first days. For a 10-year-old, this was yet another heavy blow. Friends, familiar places, and childhood memories of happy moments — all of it left behind in a moment.
Though Danylo appeared cheerful, his smile concealed a deep loneliness and a fear of losing everything he loved once again. When his aunt brought him to our center, he was a withdrawn, silent child who didn’t want to let anyone new into his world. Our psychologists faced a unique challenge.
After careful observation, psychologist Olena Kramarenko decided on group sessions using play therapy techniques. Through role-playing games and team exercises, Danylo gradually realized that interacting with others could be enjoyable and beneficial. At first, he only watched the other children. Soon, he became less shy, started participating actively in the sessions, and even felt that the world around him could be kind.
Over time, Danylo gathered the courage to share his feelings and experiences. He was surprised to learn that his story was not unique—that others, too, had faced trials and changes in their lives. During one of the activities, Danylo remembered a long-held childhood dream—to have a Labrador. Psychologist Olena encouraged him, reminding him that dreams are essential, even during times of war.
Then came creative sessions, where the children painted Ukrainian symbols for the defenders. By creating art for those protecting his home, Danylo found a way to feel valued and needed. Now, each of his drawings is a small message of support for others.
The safe and supportive environment allowed Danylo to return to his childhood, believe in kindness, and start dreaming again.
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These consultations are part of USAID Public health system recovery and resilience activity, supported by Pact, and focused on providing psychological support to displaced adults and children who have experienced trauma.
